That moment when you are having a bad day...but realize no one really cares.  If you post it on facebook you are a dramatic mess and get ripped apart, because you aren't allowed bad days.  So you cry by yourself for a while.   Then you decide to blog about it, but know no one really reads that anyway.  So you realize you are just a rambling hormonal mess and come back later and delete it and return to your solitary self loathing....hormones are fun...then add in extreme stress, inability to do what needs done, but everyone nagging about you doing it anyway...yeah..that.  Feeling like an absolute failure at all things wife and motherhood related.